The Design Conflicted Girl

I don't think I'm alone in this (please tell me I'm not), but our house is never "finished".  I could blame it on our job, always finding newer, cooler pieces and constantly swapping furniture out.  But I know better.  I remember doing this even at 12 years old....I'd save my money and buy new bedding and would end up dragging my furniture around, rearranging my room.  The whole look would change, not just a couple pieces.  This isn't anything new or curable.  I've always been a vintage girl, always a design junkie, always conflicted.  I'm a firm believer in the thought that your home should be a reflection of YOU, not a truckload of matching stuff from a big box store, just for the sake of having things on the wall.  So this is where my issue with cookie cutter design comes in.  It's like finger nails on a chalk board to me.  There is no soul in it.  Your personality should come through in your home, it should be filled with things you love and that mean something to you.  Not that it's normal to redecorate every three days, but I do love that our house evolves as we do.  

I love that the shells we picked up on the beach on a summer vacation are living on a bookshelf in the living room.  I love that my grandpa's cowboy boots sit on a bench in the dining room, so everyday when I pass them, I feel like he is still with us.  The vintage hand-painted Buddha lamp that Shawn surprised me with at my 35th birthday party is in the living room.  These things have a spirit and a story, and they are important to me.  They are part of OUR story.  We get to tell their stories when friends come over and ask "where did you find that!?".  We have things we've bought from friends, or traded with other design conflicted friends.  We have framed artwork from our girls.  Vintage kantha quilts, retro funky art prints, a great vintage chair my grandma gave us, my great-grandparents dining table as our desk...these are all things you can't just run out and buy.  It's a collection and these things have wandered around the house into just about every room.   Our house is never perfect, or magazine ready, or really even guest's messy but it's ours.  You may walk in and find everything down off the walls, the bookshelves are empty, furniture is all scattered.  We've had people come in and ask if we just moved in.  Nope, I'm just rearranging.  Then I get the look.  This slightly cocked head, puzzled look that kind of says "WHAT is wrong with you??".  And we get LOTS of "does your husband care that you do this?  Mine would kill me!".  No he doesn't mind, because he is kind of super amazing.  He knows this was part of my crazy package.  

I hope maybe this inspires you to look around your own homes, maybe pull something special out of the drawer or cabinet and let it be part of your home.  Surround yourself with the things that you love and that mean something to you.  Who cares if it doesn't all match!  Will your family care?  No.  But they will love being able to see these special things, the kids will feel special seeing their framed artwork on the wall.  Your guests will love walking around taking it all in.  Make it personal, and it will be interesting.  It is YOUR home, make it yours.  

Peace and love,



Junk Hippy Casa

Nestled in the middle of an Oklahoma metropolitan, is a home unlike any other. A canopy of trees shade its structure and the entrance transports its owners to a different place, and a different time.

The windows are open, the breeze sends fragrant notes of citrus from one end of the house to another. The Black Crowes and Fleetwood Mac play in the background, and the colorful decor set the house in a bohemian tone. But, this isn’t the typical boho decor.


It’s boho with an edge. Nothing is the same, yet it all flows together. Eclectic collections from around the world reside in this house, and just as the owner dreamed, it’s her oasis. Her place away from the world, but has the whole world in it.

Although there are pieces from her travels, some are from her adventures around Oklahoma. Estate sales, trades, auctions and random finds. She collects pieces of different patterns and textures, combines them in an aesthetically eye-pleasing compositions to create a timeless look with a touch of flair and uniqueness.

This is the Junk Hippy Casa. Kristen Grandi, owner, cannot pinpoint her design style to one particular word, it’s a conglomerate of old world and new age. A style undefined.

“I feel like I should've lived in California in the 1970s,” Grandi said. “Collected, traveled, laid back, eclectic and edgy would be the top words to describe my design style.”

Couple those words with individuality and that is the Junk Hippy style she aims to create.

Vintage rugs layered together, posters of rock legends, worn leather chairs, pillows in an array of colors and textures, statues of spiritual guidance, photographs of her most beloved travels and people, and books that line the built-in shelves covering an assortment of topics.

“This is my safe-haven, my refuge,” Grandi said. “A place where I gather with my favorite people and laugh, tell stories and live life.”

With bare feet, she wanders the rooms of her home, revealing sunlight to each area as she pulls back the curtains. A deep exhale, she sits on her vintage Chesterfield sofa, and reveals what home is to her.

“It has all my favorite things in it —from people to food to energy and dreams,” Grandi said.


Her place for personal growth, support and meditation, that is what home means to Grandi.

And while it’s known she changes and rearranges her decor quite often, one thing remains the same - it will never be a cookie-cutter house.


“I don’t like to be the same as everyone else,” Grandi said. “If something feels trendy, I’m done. We all have our own fingerprint when it comes to style. I encourage everyone to find their own perspective.”

When a piece of furniture no longer serves a purpose in her home, Grandi sells it. She doesn’t hang on to what no longer is needed.

“When I feel something is done here, I hope someone else can take it and make it work in their own way in their home,” she said.

That is Junk Hippy style.

At the moment, her home may be located in Oklahoma, but her spirit is of California. And, that is the feeling evoked when one steps through the threshold of her home. 

By Bridget Mason